I surley felt more glamorous in this nice clothes and with my hairs fresh washed, also if I can't help, I sometimes can't wait to give them in their families. mostly in the moments I'm kneeing on the floor cleaning the pee's here and there.
To pretend something and think ourself in there, surely helps to approach a feeling we are longing for. I'ts just not easy to know for ourself where we want to go.
I think most of the things are easier then we think and reachable if divided in little parts and steps, but since we want them to be complicated and difficult, they are so.
Think of something that you believe it's difficult.
For me, at this time it's the business side of live, to earn a living. It seems to be the part where I define myself to be enough.
It could also be to find balance or live a fullfilled life. Feel enough with who you are, feel beautiful or see the beauty that surrounds you daily.
Over the years I builded up the thinking, that making money isn't easy. You cant earn something with things that you actually like and enjoy doing.
Until I don't let go this feeling and believing it will really be hard, because me thinking of it as something very difficult to accomplish.
I will find here and there obstacles and will stand myself in my own way all the time.
Where are you slowing down yourself? In which parts of your life you would love to grow, but stand in your own way?
To let go of this structures you've builded in your mind, you've to become free of them and be brave to let them go and learn again from scratch.
Proof yourself that you're not right with your thinking.
Find others who do what you think is hard, without beeing stopped from themself.
Collect all the little positiv progresses in the past you made, seeking and proofing to yourself that you can do it.
Be brave, allow yourself to be brave. Trust and trust in you.
Going the path of your heart.